Combining Households in Denver? How to Make Moving to a New Home a Quick and Pain-Free Transition

Moving to a New HomeWhen two people are trying to combine households in Denver, there is no boundary to how complicated things can become. You can make this transition a lot less difficult, however, when you have a good plan. We are not referring to an average garden-variety type plan. This necessitates a fair amount of strategic planning.

Dropping hints about why your stuff should be in the new house and why mostly all of their things should be recycled or trashed, is not going to work. A more fruitful way of dealing with this involves you both reviewing all of your selections, listing some ideas, and then looking for out-of-the-box ways to make things go swimmingly. Here are 4 pieces of advice to help you get started.

Tip #1

Discuss the expectations before moving the first thing in Denver.

If you agree to merge households, you both should understand that you have your individual ways of accomplishing tasks. Everyday routines and behaviors will have to blend. When you have thought about what to expect, the transition will be much smoother.

Whether you are moving to a new home or moving into your partner's abode, these are a few items you need to ask.

  • How are we going to put together our things and put them in each room of the residence?
  • Can I change color pallets, where the furniture is set-up, etc. so I will be more cozy there?
  • If I wish to read a book, is there a quiet nook where I can relax to do this?
  • Will there be sufficient room at your place so we can entertain or I can play poker with my friends?
  • Will I be able to change one of the rooms into a home office or is there a separate place where I can set up a workspace?
  • Should we have a separate area in the home where we can do some things alone?

Placing all of this right there on the table will support you to work together and head off any potential problems.

Tip # 2

Purge duplicate items and pick and choose favorites from each person's possessions.

There was a TV show called “Clean Sweep” on which professionals aided homeowners clean one or two rooms of mess during a two-day timeframe. This was not straightforward and there were several heated talks between those homeowners. We don't want you to experience that, so here are some suggestions to help things progress without tears.

  • Create an inventory where you're residing today.
  • You both may have duplicates of most things; small items like wooden spoons and toasters and larger things like dining room tables, dressers, beds and sofas.
  • Make a Hang on to, Sell, Donate and Trash list. How do you choose where to put these items?
  • Commence by looking at their condition. Is one of the two looking worn out or in need of a repair? It's out.
  • Some of the time larger may be better (especially in the case of a shared bed). Which thing goes best in the room you are moving it into?
  • Next, look at the quality of the items. Is one of the options of a much better quality than the other and expected to last longer? No-brainer. Pick the best quality items.

Tip # 3

Come to an agreement about how these things will be arranged into the new place.

This is vital because you don't want to start moving in and then say, “Hey, where is all my stuff supposed to go?”.

It does not have to be stressful. Just talk through each room and weigh where you'll put what. If you make some rough sketches preceeding the move, you'll remember what you discussed.

What if there isn't an abundance of space? An empty kitchen cabinet can hold work files, magazines, collectibles and other things. You can also buy floating shelves, wall mounted shelves and under-bed storage bins. Over the door hooks and organizers can supply a place for shirts, ties, hats, scarves, handbags and even jewelry.

Tip # 4

Compromise, not criticize the other's things. They might have things that you believe are hideous but have sentimental value to the other person.

You might believe that this is a great time to just go crazy and dispose of all the things that you think are useless or unattractive. That assortment of glasses, mugs and plates that he's collected over the the last decade? Out of here. Those dolls and stuffed bears that seem to be all over in her apartment? Gone.

Just talk to them gently and state why you believe something won't fit into your new place and then see if you can find a compromise.

  • If you both have dinnerware, for example, you can keep one set for casual occasions and the other for special occasions.
  • If your partner has a shot glass, stamp, coin, candle, snow globe, guitar, or doll collection, Buzzfeed gives you 31 incredibly creative ways to display this stuff.
  • If your partner is sentimental about some of their furniture, can you reupholster that chair so it fits both of your styles? Paint a nightstand? Get a new top for the coffee table?

Whether you're moving together into a new home or one person is moving in with another, it's important to be considerate of each other's needs because this metamorphosis is new for both of you.

At A-1 Freeman, we know that moving is a major crossroads in your life so we want to assist in making it easier. Whether you are simply moving around the corner or to a vastly different part of the country, let us do most of the hard work for you. And when you decide which possessions you are going to move, we'll treat each item with the utmost care and respect it deserves.

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